Nigerian men are somewhat interesting; there are different things that will always amuse one when they are to be discussed . Read Belo...
Nigerian men are somewhat interesting; there are different things that will always amuse one when they are to be discussed. Read Below to educated yourself more...
As much as we are advancing in technology and picking one or two things from the western world, it is normal for us to stick to our own views and opinions sometimes.
Perhaps we should do a little bit of clarification here; some Nigerian men are exposed and well travelled while some are not. The exposed ones may find it hard to understand the way things are being done here because they have had the chance to mix with people from other tribes and nations.
Women flirt from time to time because they want to play or enjoy the company of the men. Some women that are logophiles flirt when they meet men who can string words together like them. They enjoy the way they trade words back and forth.
Let us move on to the things you should never try while flirting with a Nigerian man. You can find some of these things below:
1. Do not be a talkative
The flirting should accentuate your good points and not make the man see the annoying part of you.
Talking too much may cause the guy to be irritated and instantly turned off.
Speak more with your eyes and your body if you are flirting with a Nigerian man. Do this moderately so you do not end up making him feel like you are saying ‘Hey, yo! I’m a hooker’
2. Avoid one word answers
Men do not have time to waste. If you are coming on to a man, then map out your plans and follow them through.
Monosyllabic answers kill the chat flow; why will you ever initiate flirting 101 when you know you are not ready to take it to the final level?
One word answers may make the guy feel like he is bugging you and deactivate the flirting wires you have switched on.
3. Do not dress to kill
While it is understandable that you want to knock the guy off with what you have on, you should also be careful so that you do not over do it.
Depending on your level of maturity, you will know that showing off skin and cleavages is not to your advantage. This is Nigeria; people are sensitive to clothes that show a lot.
Your crush may be uncomfortable walking with you in the streets because his reputation is at stake too.As much as you want him to press your green button, the people around him may see you as being ‘slutty’ and warn him off you. That is game over!
4.Do not be excessively touchy
Most girls definition of flirting is touching and giggling constantly. You can smile and giggle once in a while; you do not want to strike him as a clown.
Touching him regularly may trigger some feelings within him. It may be taken as an invitation to ‘straff’! It will change the way he sees you because he would feel like you are baiting him with your cookie.
5. Be polite
The way you play your cards will tell; Nigerian men want women who are exciting. If you are polite while flirting, your integrity will remain intact as you cannot be treated anyhow.
