My Boyfriend Of 8 Years Wants Me To Abort My 4th Pregnancy, What do I Do?

Dear BlackBerrybabes, I am Jessica and I have a big problem I want your readers to help with their words of advice. I am 34-years-...

Dear BlackBerrybabes,

I am Jessica and I have a big problem I want your readers to help with their words of advice. I am 34-years-old and I have been in a relationship with Patrick for the past 8 years but he is not in a hurry to settle down.
Continue After the cut.
Patrick is 39-years-old and it's not as if he is not able to settle down but he keeps postponing it  anytime I bring up the issue of marriage. I am a working class,  I work as banker and my family is no longer comfortable that I have been with a man this long without getting married.

 All my sisters are married and they have been telling me to move on and get married to another man but I love Patrick and cannot contemplate living without him but he is not just ready.

Being with him, I have had three times several abortions  and the last time, the doctor told me I stand the chance of not getting pregnant when I want to.

So two months ago, I missed my period again and I am determined to keep the baby but Patrick is not favourably disposed to the idea and has been hankering on me to undergo another abortion.

He has added another dimension that I am planning to pin him down with a baby when he is not ready. He has refused to talk to me since I told him I am not ready to abort this baby.

My friends are of the view that I should dare him and keep the baby but I am afraid he will deny responsibility and my baby would go through life without a father.

But at the same time, I am afraid of getting rid of it because of the warning the doctor gave me the last time.

What should I do this time around?

Jessica."
 We want you our beloved readers to advice Jessica what to do.
Do you support Abortion?