“I am upset and do not know what to do; I feel like my world is starting to crumble. I got married three years ago and things were ...
“I am upset and do not know what to do; I feel like my world is
starting to crumble. I got married three years ago and things were
going on smoothly until three months ago. My husband is an expatriate
who is hardly in the country.
We find ways to connect with each other despite our busy lives.
The last time my husband came home, I noticed a change in him. He was
excited for some unknown reasons; he had a weird way of responding to my
presence in the room. I found all these things strange even though i
decided to let things slide since we did not have any argument.
I altered the pattern of visit three months ago because of the
economy; we felt it was better for him to come visit since we were
handling some projects. I was practically horny and could not wait for
him to settle down properly before I started touching him. He threw me
off and said he was tired. I knew I was being selfish considering the
hours he spent in the plane.
When we finally had time for ourselves, something strange
happened. He was disconnected most of the time and i had to talk to
bring him back to my body. When he released, he moaned a name in my ears
repeatedly.
It took me a while before I got to know it was my mother’s name
he was calling. Why in God’s name will my husband call out my mother’s
name when we are making love? I had a special pet name for her so it
could not have been someone’s name.
I did not have the courage to ask him about it; it must have
been my ears picking the wrong sound. But the same thing happened when
we made love the next day. He closed his eyes as he called her name. I
got worried at this point and reacted; he added my name to it and made
it look like he was praising me.
Coincidentally, my mother visited us some days after and I
watched both of them closely. He had always been free with her but every
movement had meaning to me.
She kept referring to the last time she travelled out of the
country; I had sent some things to him and he had sent her back to me.
But only God knows what happened while they were alone.
I caught my husband looking funnily at my mum. I am afraid to
confront him because I cannot bring myself to ask him what happened
between him and her.
The thought of my mother and my husband being together is
driving me crazy. As much as I do not want people to know about this, it
is serious. My husband calls my mother’s name during love making.
Please what do I do?”
